As Vickie Gray has noted, "Holding back your feelings doesn’t keep them hidden, it just makes your behavior incoherent." [1] Which reminds me of something I first heard from either David Bradford or Mary Ann Huckabay at Stanford many years ago: "We're leaky." When we try to suppress our feelings, we "leak" in all sorts … Continue reading We’re Leaky (Emotional Signals and Cognitive Dissonance)